Own your F Timeline
We hear “you have time” all the time. But what does that actually mean?
This episode explores fertility and timing, including egg freezing, fertility testing and understanding your options earlier. The goal is not to pressure people into having children sooner, but to help them make informed decisions about their future.
Understanding your options starts with information.
Top FAQs from Own Your F Timeline.
Understanding your options starts with information.
One of the strongest themes across all three discussions was that fertility conversations should start earlier than most people realise. Many experts suggested beginning fertility conversations in your late 20s or early 30s, even if you are not ready for children yet.
Why are so many people delaying having children?
The conversations repeatedly highlighted that modern life often does not align with peak fertility years. Many people are prioritising careers, financial stability, housing, travel or relationships before starting families, especially as the cost of living continues to rise.
At what age does fertility start to decline?
Fertility specialists across all three panels explained that fertility is generally highest in a woman’s 20s and gradually declines over time, with a more noticeable decline after the mid 30s. However, they also stressed that fertility decline is gradual rather than a sudden “cliff.”
Does male fertility decline with age too?
Yes. A major theme throughout the transcripts was correcting the misconception that male fertility lasts forever. Experts explained that sperm quality, fertility outcomes and some pregnancy risks can also change with age, particularly after 40
What is egg freezing and why do people do it?
Egg freezing is a medical process where eggs are collected and frozen to preserve future fertility options. People may choose egg freezing for many reasons, including relationship timing, career goals, financial circumstances, medical conditions such as endometriosis or simply wanting more reproductive choice later in life.
Is egg freezing only for people with fertility problems?
No. One of the biggest misconceptions discussed was that egg freezing is only for infertility. Fertility specialists explained that many people freeze eggs proactively to preserve future options before fertility naturally declines with age.
Does egg freezing guarantee a future baby?
No. Egg freezing is not a guarantee, but rather a way to increase future reproductive options. Success depends on many factors, including age at freezing and the number and quality of eggs collected.
What is AMH and can it tell you your fertility?
AMH, or Anti-Müllerian Hormone, is a blood test that helps estimate egg reserve. However, fertility specialists repeatedly emphasised that AMH is not a direct measure of egg quality or a guarantee of fertility. It is one piece of a much bigger fertility picture.
Can lifestyle affect fertility for both men and women?
Yes. The discussions highlighted that fertility is closely linked to overall health. Alcohol, smoking, vaping, weight, exercise, sleep, stress and nutrition can all impact fertility outcomes and reproductive health for both men and women.
Why do fertility conversations still feel taboo?
Many of our F Chat panellists explained that fertility was rarely discussed growing up, outside of conversations about preventing pregnancy. Because of this, many people feel awkward, embarrassed or unprepared discussing fertility, egg freezing or reproductive timelines openly.
What is the best first step if I want to understand my fertility options?
Across all three conversations, the most consistent advice was simple: start by having the conversation. Speaking with a fertility specialist can help you better understand your fertility, reproductive health and future options based on your individual circumstances and goals.
"When I was 25 I thought yeah I will be married with 2 kids by 30" - Alisha on how her expectations around family, fertility and timing changed over time
Pictured from left to right: Angie Kent @angiekent_, Sam, Alisha Bhojwani @alishabhojwani_, Riana, Queensland Fertility Group Fertility Specialist Dr Eva Kretowicz
Where can I learn more?
You can explore more episodes, articles and resources through The F Chat content hub or book an appointment with a fertility specialist to discuss your individual situation further.
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